Can't help feeling guilty!
Hi everyone, was Hoping for some.words of support really,
Me and my fiance have been engaged for the best part of 11 years, we have two children together, and have finally booked our wedding for November this year!
But...nobody knows, we're eloping, and havent told a soul, we don't want a fuss, we just want it to be a day for us..our familiesware huge on both sides, and we just know it'd end up getting out of control.
My mum and dad had always said if they could do it all over again theyd elope, and have said themselves for years that is what we should do, but i cant help but feel guilty..
I don't want the family to see us as being selfish, or stingy when it comes to money, we just want it to be a quiet, quick ceremony that'll be just for us.
Has anybody else here done the same? Do you wish youd have done the big family wedding instead?