How to lose a bridesmaid?
Yes i am having regrets, I chose my bridesmaids and asked and they said yes.
I chose my friend as my matron of honour and to be honest Ihaven't seen of her or heard from her in ages.
I sent her details of wedding fairs and she said she will see when she was working and 'oh I'll bring Jo along as well' (Jo is her daughter - recently engaged and getting married August 2018).
I am getting married March 2018.
Well I don't hear anything..... Then I see a post on Facebook from her daughter about her going to wedding fair. I messaged and said I asked you months ago and I didn't hear anything from you - 'I forgot' was the reply, followed by 'then Jo get us tickets' (no mention of 'would you like to come along?' - nothing, just 'sorry').
Ive been sending her spa packages information hoping that it would give her ideas to sort out hen ideas - nothing.
I've organised one 'thing' for my hen do - Jamies followed by ghost walk and then drinks. Her reply was 'oh sorry I won't finished work in time but hopefully I'll be able to come to some of the other hen do's'. Now the hen do is in October!!! Another thing...... that simple reply she gave has given me the impression she is not going to organise 'anything'.
I feel so deflated, there is nothing coming from her for my wedding however I am sitting at home looking at wedding planning, events, fairs etc from Facebook updates for her daughters Wedding.
I can't carry on with this....
Advice and ideas please.