H2b a bit stuck with best man choices
I'm trying to help out my partner. I think he's stuck with his best man choices. Although he has plenty of male friends, they are either not close enough or he doesn't think they can take the pressure.
His two favourite choices are a work colleague he's worked alongside for the last 5+ years. I think he spends more time with him and than me haha! But apparently he doesn't cope well with stress and in meetings it's always my partner who does the speaking so the speech may be difficult
The second is an old uni friend who he used to be super close with, we all did. We stayed in touch but then suddenly something changed. Not only did he stop inviting us to things like before he wouldn't even respond to us when we contacted him. After countless let downs (one when he said he was on holiday when actually he wasn't and not responding to our engagement invite at all) Ive said I dont even want him at the wedding let alone best man. He has made no effort to stay in contact. But my partner is upset by this and is still clinging on to hope they will be friends like before. Other than that there isn't really anyone else I can picture in the role. not sure how to help