I really need some help and advice.
Im planning the wedding of my dreams to the man of my dreams in October me and H2b are paying for the whole thing ourselves
Sadly at the age of 13 i lost my mum and the whole wedding planning has been hard for me luckily my h2b and best friends are amazing and have helped me so much.
My dad on the other hand hes been useless not asked about the wedding, hes just really told me who i should and shouldn't invite really not asked about anything else, oh and also told me hes not doing a speech.
Sadly last week grandad passed away and already my dad has fallen out with his brother and now my dad is sending me horrible messages telling me if my uncle or cousins are coming to the wedding hes not and i have to choose? I understand theae text messages were sent drunk but 3 days later and he still hasn't messaged me at all to apologise or speak to me sober.
What the hell do i do? Say screw it im having my family there and if he really wont come to his only daughters wedding becuase of this then its his loss??..becuase i also have this fear at the back of my mind hes going to get drunk at my wedding and ruin it anyway.
Any advice would be amazing as i really dont want to upset anybody and im really close to my cousins and would hate for them not to be there.