Heartbroken and Lost
Hello fellow bride to be's. I am in a place I never thought I'd find myself and I'm totally lost. I'd love some objective, outside insight and ideas.
My fiance and I were long distance for most of our relationship. To be in the same city, he asked me to move to Los Angeles- where the only thing he has is a job that he just quit. So now, he is freelancing, and doesn't have anything thing him here. No friends, family, anything. Only the job he quit- and one I knew he was quitting when I agreed to move.
A month after I moved, my dad was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. If you are unfamiliar with this type of cancer, the prognosis is 2-6 months. My parents have been together for 36 years, and my mom will need a lot of emotional support when he passes. I asked my f if he would consider moving to tn with me to help my dad while he's still here and my mom when he isn't. I also asked if we could push our wedding up (we currently don't have a date set) so my dad could be there for it. He became furious at the thought of moving to TN bc he does NOT want to be there and said we needed to talk about things before we have a wedding.
I would have never moved for him if I realized he had any doubts. When I asked him about it after things cooled off, he told me he was 100% sure I'm the girl for him, and that he wants to marry me. But he won't make any plans and I'm running out of time with my dad.
I suggested we take a break, so that's what we're doing right now. Any insight, ideas, thoughts would be greatly appreciated. My #1 priority right now is my family and if it's just an inconvenience for him, am I with the wrong person? Or is he just as stressed and emotional?