Full disclosure- I have no problem with my other half going to strip clubs when on a stag do and I fully expected him to do it on his stag do.
I spoke to him by phone over the weekend of his stag do and he mentioned he'd got in at 5am one morning. I asked whether that's because he'd been in a strip club and he said no. He's just accidentally let slip that he did in fact go to one.
I'm gutted, not because he went but because he lied about going.
I don't know how to approach the subject without sounding controlling or like I'm going back on what I said was acceptable. Feeling pretty shit right now!
(I was cheated on throughout my entire first marriage, including with "friends" of mine so honesty is a big deal for me)