How do we say no to wedding contributions?
When me and my fiance first got engaged we sat down with our families who expressed they wanted to contribute to our weddings. This was absolutely fine we were glad to accept this generous contribution and involve them in aspects of our wedding planning.
Over the last 7 months my relationship with my Future FIL has gone from bad to worse, he seems to think that because they are paying for certain parts of the wedding they will choose what we have and in particular can tell me that I am not allowed to come along or contact suppliers.
We would not have said yes to the contribution had we known it came with these (in my opinion, really unfair) stipulations. After a recent conversation about it he got very stressed and now won't speak to me in particular so we think it is best to say thank you but no thank you to the contribution but how do we now say no?
Help please xxx