So my wedding is next year. We made a decision early on that only nieces and nephews were to be invited. We shared this with those that had children and bar a few grumblings it was fine.
Now one of these grumblers is pregnant again.. that's fine, the baby would be less than 2 months old so we wouldn't have to count them as a person but she is insisting that they have to bring other child who would be 18 months old. our venue has to count the chair, even if its a highchair We genuinely don't have the space... We can have 60 day guests and we are at 60. How do I deal with this?