Just looking for some opinions. I get married in less than 6 months and have 4 bridesmaids. When we went looking for their dresses we discussed my hairdresser (and maybe her colleague too) coming to us on the morning of the wedding to do everyone's hair, and everyone does their own make up. Everyone was on board with this.
I have since mentioned that my hairdresser is able to do what we had discussed but now one bridesmaid wants to sort herself out as I said she wasn't doing hair trails for bridesmaids, one has thought about doing the same and another wants to go elsewhere to get make up done and meet us later .
When I mentioned that I wanted us all to get ready and do it all together on the morning of the wedding it descended into chaos and arguing. They were either saying that there would not be enough time, they'd have to get up at 6am and there would be no time for them to eat. We don't get married until 2pm!
Am I being selfish wanting everyone to do what I want on the morning of the wedding, or am I overreacting? I feel like just saying I will get ready with the one bridesmaid who is happy to do whatever I want and my mum, and I'll just meet the other before the ceremony begins. It's starting to really get me down and I just feel like they don't care what I want.