Friend trying to make us change our date
Hello, just needing some advice and support about an unfortunate situation...
So my fiance has a best friend who he is very close too, grew up with him, lived next door to each other, he has a girlfriend who has always had issues with me. We do not get along very well. *side note my fiance's ex also had a lot of trouble with this girl too so its not just me
She always seems to have issues and make me feel down and sad a lot of the time with her comments etc to me.
Anyways, my fiance and his best friend bought rings at the same time (unknowingly) he proposed a month before my fiance did.
They booked their wedding date november 12 2019. We went looking for venues and wanted to be married in october due to families birthdays in november (we also can only get married on a weekend) and not wanting to be close to Christmas as work is crazy for us then. It just works best for us and we didnt think anything of it. Anyways we booked for two weeks before theirs and now she is being horrible to us, she is trying to make us move dates, even called our venue to find out what other dates we could have. She also looked through my families facebook pages to check their birthdays because she thought i was lying about it.
We are also in aus and spring/summer is oct-march so limited weekends and we are wanting to be married soon in 2019 so we can have kids.
Ive cried more than laugh since being engaged due to all of this. I dont know what to do. I didnt think this would be a problem. If it was the other way around i wouldn't care im just excited to get married but i feel a massive damper on everything because of how she is acting. I have been getting nasty texts from her for weeks.
What do i do ?!