Not returning the BM ‘favour’
I was bridesmaid for one of my friends last month. She had 7 - 5 of us from school, her sister, and another friend she’s made in the last few years.
I am only having my two daughters as bridesmaids. I was never going to go down the matching dresses route, I was never going to have 5 bridesmaids and I definitely couldn’t choose between the 5 as i love them all equally and have known them all since school. i Was BM for my mum and dad‘s weddings (separately) and for me it felt right to have my daughters be our bridesmaids. All of my friends think it’s lovely and cute etc, apart from the one who got married last month.
Am I awful for not ‘returning the favour’? Surely because I’m only having my children it’s just a completely different thing?!