17 year old Grooms Sister demanding boyfriend gets invited!!!
So, I never thought I’d be posting something like this! Funny how weddings bring out the worse in people!
My fiancées younger sister (who I have asked to be bridesmaid) has sent a long message to my fiancee saying she’s offended we have not invited her 17 year old boyfriend to the wedding. I have never met him and they’ve been together a little under a year I think. Weddings are expensive and my fiancées family are contributing absolutely nothing to the wedding. His sister has said she’s offended we’re not taking their relatonship seriously as it’s not just a childhood fling and that we’re being (for want of a better word) ageist! I have been 17 and am sure while they feel this is the real deal it’s hit or miss whether they’ll be together late next year!
His mother has clearly made the situation worse by encouraging her instead of explaining weddings are expensive etc..
The text message sent also had a few nasty digs such as ‘she’s doing us a huge favour‘ by Being a bridesmaid (I only asked her to be nice to his side!) and ’ive not met her boyfriend as I’ve not been to their family parties’! (I have 2 children under 6 and a very busy job so may have missed a couple this year!!)
what do I do? keen to tell her not to ‘do us a huge favour’ being bridesmaid and to stop being a spoilt brat?!