Help! I don’t want to be Bridezilla!
I got engaged a a little over a month ago and have finally booked a venue and have a wedding date! When discussing future plans with H2B Family and telling them the date we have booked my future SIL drops in casually that is is looking to get married just 10 days before.
For context... future SIL and BIL have been engaged for little over a year and have always said they’re not interested in getting married just yet.They have been together for over 11 years and have a baby. I have been with H2B for 8 years but are keen on getting married before even contemplating children. Now we have set the date and paid a large deposit it is disappointing to hear that they are looking to get married such a short time before, a complete U-turn on ‘we aren’t interested in a wedding!’. They haven’t booked anything they have just decided a date...
I wouldn’t be phased if it was a different season or even month! but to share such a big life event with just one weekend separating them I can’t help feeling disappointed. Am I overreacting? Is it unreasonable to suggest they move there’s foward if possible? for now I am keeping quiet because I don’t want to cause anything but deep down I know I‘m pretty bummed about it.