Bridesmaid desperate for advice
Hi all, please be kind im in a really difficult situation. I recently found out that my friends fiancé has been having a “affair” with another woman that was going on for months. I found out from my husband who is best mates with my friends fiancé. He’s known for a while and it’s been eating him up. He was sworn to secrecy and now feels extremely guilty for breaking trust with the fiancé. I am also friends with the fiancé. Apparantly now it’s all over and my husband says I should just forget about it. I feel deeply uncomfortable and really can’t look my friend in the eye knowing this. I have no idea what to do. Telling her would cause serious trouble and hurt her badly but one part of me thinks she deserves to decide herself what she wants to do. Her fiancé will not tell her and says he wants to forget it. I feel so stuck. It’s causing problems in my own marriage now as well.