BEST MAN PROBLEM! NEED ADVICE!!!
Hi all, i have posted this in for the grooms as i am writing on behalf of h2b. Heres the problem; h2b has chose his friend Jay to be his best man, he has asked him already. He recently has become close to one of my good friends bf Sadler, they are like kids when they see each other. When we are going round theres sadler is looking through the blinds to see if Johns there!! And the sad thing is John does exactly the same if they are coming here! lol We meet up most weeks, sometimes more than once. Sadler is the same age as john, jay is older, by about 12 years. Jay has been a good friend to john for the whole of his life really, he spent xmas round his house etc. The problem is John thinks sadler will make a better best man than jay, without sounding horrible. Sadler cant be an usher, we already have 2! My idea was to have them both but share the job, Jays wife will be on her own at the champagne breakfast so instead of sitting on the top table, he could sit with her while sadler does the speeches etc. Sadlers gf Lauren could always be my maid of honor and their son wants to be a pageboy anyway, but even if lauren doesnt sit on the top table she wont be on her own as shell have jayden with her. Oh its all a pickle!!! Doesn anyone have any advice? Has anyone been through this b4? xxx