Boudoir Shoot - bad idea?
Ok so I have been reading another thread on here about a grroms (very) bad reaction to a boudoir shoot. I kind of felt like I was very similar to the other OP in that my fiance has asked for nude pictures of me in the past and it got my brain thinking that a boudoir shoot might be a nice present idea for him on the big day. But having read about the other grooms reaction to his I thought I'd test the water a little with my groom to be and see what he thought. Didn't tell him I was thinking of getting one done but said that a friend was and asked him what he thought... not a good idea. He basically said that it should be between us and the only one to take the photos should be him - regardless of it being a professional who takes the pics. That he would think less of me for doing something like that and would tell me to take the pics back as he wouldn't be interested!
All in all leaving me quite glad I sounded him out before I went ahead... but in all honesty a bit confused and disappointed too. Although the thought of it terrified me initially I have to admit I was quite looking forward to it. And I am now totally confused as to him asking for nude pics of me... why would that not make him think less of me but nicley lit and staged photos would? Maybe this is a 'men are from mars, women are from venus' type thing but I just don't understand. Back to the drawing board for present ideas then I guess...
Sorry if this thread doesn't make a whole lot of sense... just wanted to put my thoughts down in black and white I guess!