Speech toast for a tricky situation
It's my brother's wedding on Friday (yes, this Friday!) and I'm just making the final touches to my speech, one thing I'm really struggling with is the ending/toast. Basically they've been together for 16 years or so and have two lovely children, however, my future SIL is terminally ill, I won't go into details, however, all the 'typical' toasts along the lines of 'long and happy' future or 'wishing good health' and all that sort of thing are far from appropriate.
I'm not the sort of guy to finish with something too jokey/tongue in cheek, that's just not me.
Any suggestions much appreciated, at the moment I'm thinking I somehow need to get in that they've got two brilliant children, but I'm just not sure how to tackle this delicate situation.