I've been having trouble working out who to have as my maid of honor, was deciding between 3 friends but can only have the 1 grown up / bridesmaid. I'm currently having 2 young ones (our nieces) but can't decide whether to ask my cousins 2 girls too,,, one who I'm godmother to. So would mean 4 little ones who will be 4,5,9 and 10 but then no big one... I'm finding it hard to decide who to ask anyway. Obviously the nieces know they Re going to be flower girl/ bridesmaids but I'd love the other 2 girls too. A friend of mine didn't even have any bridesmaids or flower girls so I know its do able... What do you all think???