ok I'll make this short As I can.
I'm a bridesmaid for my freind in three weeks. When she first asked I was trying for a baby (she knew) I got pregnant three times since and had all miscarriages (she knows about one only - we told only parents after the first ) - she knows we were trying continuously.
in June she brought the dresses she had chosen to each of us - seen them in the sale and got them so we had no say which I didn't really care about.
dresses are small fitting, tight, formal, midi length - she got me a 12, I'm a 10-12 so fit fine. She said she knows I'm trying for a baby so if it came to it and I couldn't wear it don't worry about it at all.
dresses have come back from the dry cleaners and it's feeling very snug on me and I don't feel comfortable at all. I'm 8 weeks pregnant now (she doesn't know!) and my boobs have gone up two cup sizes already, and im so bloated my belly has literally gained about four inches.... The dress fit in June and In honesty I thought id loose a couple of pounds before the wedding... But ive been continuously pregnant since July (miscarriage and caught with no period twice in a row!!) so I've literally had no opportunity to loose weight and can't diet now.
i feel awful and don't know what to do... To be honest and say exactly what's happened since July, or wear the too small dress. due to previous miscarriages I don't want people knowing we are pregnant. I will be 10-11 weeks when she's married and may be bigger!!!
theres no chance of me getting a bigger dress either they were end of line I've checked ebay, preloved everything I just feel terrible and don't know what to do. - I feel like she will feel ive let her down last minute x