Hen weekend but no invite
]I'm just looking for opinions as I'm feeling pretty down about a situation.
A friend of mine from work is getting married in the summer. I'm off in her hen weekend in a couple of weeks and have spent a good few hundred on going despite not really being able to afford it but I didn't want to let her down.
Well I've found out that some of my co workers (those I'm expecting to be invited) have had their invites but I'm left wonder why I haven't had one. She's has been a bit offish with me lately and I can only put it down to me being in a new relationship since last year. I admit that I don't spend as much time with her as I did but there have been a few occasions where I was left disappointed about going out as she cancelled on me too. I pretty much stopped running around after her in the end.
My question is whether I'm being unreasonable to expect at least an evening invite considering that I was invited to the hen, and that was only arranged at the beginning of this year.
I know I should probably just ask what's going on but I'm not good with confrontation and really don't know how to even begin to ask. I can imagine it would be very awkward if it is a simple case of me not being invited.
It's upset me quite a lot and I'm really starting to wonder whether going on the weekend is a good idea considering how awkward it will be it the conversation of the big day pops up.
Help please anyone?