Wedding accommodation offered to some siblings but not others
My brother is getting married in September. The venue is a remote barn conversion and the venue has 20 rooms which have been booked by my sister in law to be. My daughter is being a bridesmaid and my son a ring boy. At the weekend I found out that my mum has been given a room, one of my brothers (who is best man) and his partner have been given a room but not myself, husband and 2 children or my other brother his wife and child who has special needs. I am really hurt. Who have the the other 18 rooms been given to as her family is very small? I can’t believe that friends have been prioritised over direct family. Am I right to feel upset? it’s spoiling the day for me. I have booked a premier inn which is 7 miles away. With the hassle of taxis and having to get my daughter to the venue early as she will need make up hair etc. My nephew with special needs doesn’t like loud noises and struggles to be around people for long periods of time so a room at the venue would have helped my other brother so much as he would have had somewhere to take him if he started to feel anxious. So disappointed with their decision. It’s not about finances as we would have been happy to pay.