Will it be anyone else's second marriage?
I got married over 10 years ago and it didn't work out. For my finace it's his first marriage. As I've been married before I was happy to have a low-key Registry Office wedding and a small do for family and close friends but he wants "to do it properly". I'm a little embarassed when people say "OMG are you excited" etc etc ... I'm delighted with our venue and looking forward to planning, but I never changed my name back to my maiden name, purely because it was too much faff.
I'd just be interested to hear from any other brides doing this for the second time. Did you change your name back? Did you have a big do or a low-key wedding?
Don't get me wrong, I'm exciting and looking forward to getting going but some of my friends have eye-rolled me with a kind of "oh not again" attitude!