Can't agree on a church anyone?!
Hi everyone, just wondering if anyone else has had problems agreeing on a church to be married in. My h2b has always gone to the local methodist church which is a quite modern church. However he is not a regular church goer anymore, unlike his family. I'm not a regular church goer either but I a christian and have brought up as Cof E. I really don't want to get married at the local methodist church, but at the local CofE church which is so beautiful and I've always dreamt of marrying there. However I don't want to upset my h2b or his family.
Has anybody else had a similar dilemma?
Hayley x
Has anybody else had a similar dilemma?
Hayley x
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Probably not helpful, as the only dvice I can offer is to sit down and talk through your reasons, but hopefully some help????
Good luck xxxx
This is just a suggestion anda personal opinion, it worked for me as something of the reasons my h2b hadn't considered and vise versa. Try not to get yourself to worked up over it, a calm apporach works best! Mind you, I did have to work on it and I did have to compromise in another area so we both had what we wanted!
Let us know how you get on. xxx
A friend of mine also suggested maybe having a bleesing at my h2b's church which may also be an option.
I can't believe it's one of the first things we have to decide and we can't agree- typical!