Non-traditional bridesmaids- how to ask?!
So after many months deliberation I think I've decided not to have any 'official' bridesmaids, to cut a long story short I don't have a best friend and have too many close friends to have them all & no 1, 2 or 3 of them stand out as closer than the others. I want them all to be involved in the wedding more than just your average guest so am hoping they'll all agree to be non-traditional bridesmaids and help with things like the hen do, getting ready with me on the morning, helping me with my dress in the loo (!) all that stuff & in return I want to kind of honour them with some kind of corsage/bracelet to wear on the day.
Anyway back to the point of the thread...I want to send them a poem to ask them & explain but I can't find anything on the internet at all! Basically want it to cover the fact that I'm lucky enough to have a lot of close friends but can't have them all as bridesmaids, that I won't be expecting them to wear matching dresses & that they are completely free to help as much or as little as they like...no pressure at all basically! & that I'll be sorting something like a corsage/bracelet to wear on the day...anyone out there good with words & can help me out?!
Also trying to think of a name for it all to give it a bit of a cheesy group name lol saw bridal brigade online but felt it sounded a bit American? Also saw Team Bride which I thought was quite cute? or maybe bridal team? dunno...again any help would be great!!