Hi. So I have some mind mess of what to do bridesmaid wise.
I don't feel I have any obvious close friends... I know that may seem odd but that's that.
I was maid of honour at one friends wedding last year and everyone is assuming I will have her in my wedding, but a lot has happened since there, before her wedding there was friction due to her skating everything I planned for her hen do etc. She has also at work said some things about me which caused a lot of trouble and upset, as well as anxiety for me, of which I don't actually think she knows I have been told.... (although she has been very over the top since, trying to please)
Am ibwrong for crossing her off completely?
People keep asking me what I'm going to do bridesmaid wise and I'm just saying I don't know.
My hearts saying not her, but have my childhood best friend although we don't see each other much when we do its like it was yesterday.
My mil is hinting at having my partners sister which I wouldn't mind really as we are close, I'm having my daughter and 2 nieces as flower girls and thinking having my god daughter/cousin also, It's so hard.
Any advice how not to offend everyone