No Plans, No Ideas, No Rush....... Family Stress!
We got engaged on Christmas Day, been together 2 1/2 years and it was a lovely surprise! I know he is my Mr Right, however I have been divorced twice due to cheating men My fiance has been married for a very short time in the past, at the time he was going through a breakdown and thankfully it was over from his toxic ex very quickly.
ANYWAY..... We are in no rush, I would like to get married before my passport needs renewing in 2023 hehehe. I just don't know how, where etc. because of my dysfunctional parents! They split 6 years ago or more, mum was having an affair and is still with the guy now. I get on fine with him but my dad still holds a torch for my mum, has not seen her with her man although he knows about him. It would break his heart to have to be in the same room as them so a nice, easy conventional registry office wedding is unlikely.
I got married in the Caribbean last time so my fiance is not so keen on doing it abroad for that reason which is fair enough. He would love his mum and family to be at the wedding but i can't see us being able to have a family wedding because of my crap situation. So, what do we do?
I can't tell my mums partner that he is not invited, as much as that is the best solution as that will cause a riot! I can picture us going off on the quiet with my daughters but I don't think that is the answer and I don't think that my fiance would be happy without his family there - argh help!