We just decided to postpone our wedding and then was offered the cost??
A friend of my OH, lets just say has a lot of disposable income. They're friends a long while and are in a band together. Myself and my fiancé were due to marry in a few months but for financial reasons we came to the conclusion that we have no other choice but to postpone until we do have enough money saved. My fiancé's friend has now offered to give us the money we are short for the wedding, not as a loan but as a gift! How amazingly generous and of course I'm still a taken back by his generous offer.
We said we would think about it and I told my OH that we could somehow say our thank you by repaying him in the future even though he doesn't claim to want this back. My fiancé however is undecided and wants more time to think about it. Am I very selfish or paranoid, in wondering why my fiancé is taking so long to think about this. I'm feeling like maybe he wants the wedding postponed for more reasons than finance.