Blooming heck its been nearly 6 years since I have been on here planning my wedding. So I am moh at a Wedding in a month and after a conversation with bride just needed opinions so though I would come back here for advice. The wedding is in America, I'm wearing a long purple dress with high heel silver shoes. I was asked by mob if I wanted them to book me a hair appointment which I said yes to so asked bride what way she was having hers and what way she wanted mine. The response has left me flummoxed; she is having an up do and said that I was wearing a cowboy hat. I didn't even know they were having a cowboy theme. She also said my daughter was wearing one to but her mum told me months ago she would have a gypsophila crown. Now I have grown my hair for 2 years for this wedding so I could keep style options open. How can I do my hair? If I have it half up half down will all the pins get stuck in hat and wreck hair as it will be really warm being a summer wedding and if I just have it down is there any point in going to hair dressers?