I need some other peoples opinions as my head is a total mess and think that I might be over reacting.
We and the H2B are getting married Aug 2013. H2B’s brother and his gf have just got engaged and are looking a wedding venue. She text me yesterday saying that they have found their venue however they can afford to do it June 2013.
I am really grateful that the has asked me on what my though and feeling are with them getting married before us. I told her the truth and said that it would upset me if they do it before us, knowing how much planning etc has gone into our and that I don’t want the shine to be taken from our day.
I don’t want to come across selfish, because that isn’t me but I will be heartbroken if they do do it before us…
Thoughts please :’(