So after all the planning, and a day that was indescribably wonderful, you'd think all the stress would be gone! Sadly, I noticed we hadn't received cards from two of my friends and, really concerned I'd missed something, I text both to ask. I made it clear that we didn't mind either way if they'd got us something - we genuinely just wanted them to be there - but I don't want to keep searching for something that doesn't exist, or not search for a gift or card they put thought into.
Was it right to text them? What do I do if they have given gifts and we can't find them? I don't want them to feel they have to replace them or feel annoyed with us that they've somehow gone awry.