So i have arranged a few weekends this month to go to try dresses on for the first time! I have invited my mother and being close with my future MIL i have asked her to come too!
My mother is not happy with this at all and is refusing point blank to go if my MIL does as she feels it should just be me and her! I see her side but she is being completely unfair, she isn't willing to compromise at all. Its not that i want a huge entourage for trying on dresses but I want my mother and my mother in law there as i value their opinions and being the indecisive bride i am need help from people that know me well.
I've now asked my sister to come along, but obvioulsy my mother has spoken behind my back and her opinion is that of my mothers but never the less has agreed to come. I offered my mother the first day to just be us and the rest would be with her my sister and MIL - again she has refused.
It's really upsetting not just for me but for my fiancee and his mum.
I really don't know where to go with this, being as stubborn as my mother i don't want to give in to her plus if i do that will take away any special feelings there should be. Please help me ladies
Do i just go with my sister and MIL?