So we have just booked our venue and the time has come to pick our wedding party. The issue is the OHs sisters. I currently have 4 bridesmaids, not including them, but since we got engaged the sisters have gone on about bridesmaids and have I decided who I am having. The issue I have is I get on with one but not the other, she is rude and looks down her nose at me and always has done. Up until last week I had planned on having them both bringing the total to 6. However she made her opinion of me quite clear and I just dont know if I can do it. I just feel she is ruining something that should be a special time for my OH and I by making it about her. I've discussed with my OH about them not being bridesmaids and getting them to do a reading or something. I think he feels upset by this but also understands my reasoning behind this after the way I have been treated by her recently.
i know in the grand scheme of things this is such a small issue, but I can't help think am I going to create an issue by not having them. I also can't stand to think she will try to control the wedding by being involved. Am i wrong to not have them as bridesmaids? The thought of it is reducing me to tears and I honestly do not know what to do!!
Thank you for reading and for ang advice that can be offered.