Fiancé won’t let my son be a junior groomsmen
My fiancé firstly has said me MOH can’t do a speech which she was planning to do as it’s only traditional for BM but is acted like I should tell her no. this already wound me up but he is now saying my 10 year old son can’t be a junior groomsman as the groomsman are his choice and I’m being demanding and controlling. I pointed out his daughter is being a bridesmaid and he said he didn’t ask for that it was my own choice but he’s not having my son being a junior groomsman and that’s final so I’m to stop pretending he is (I had assumed my fiancé was happy with him being as he was there when son was fitted for suit). He says he will even go as far as to making sure everyone knows at the wedding that my son isn’t one of his groomsman (which seems cruel to me on my son and I feel he’s pushing him out the wedding). I said that he could always be ring bearer instead but my fiancé says no as his best man is passing the rings and I’m to stop making up roles for my son.
am I being too demanding, it’s really giving me doubts as it’s now making me feel he’s pushing my son out, doesn’t care about who’s feelings he hurts and isn’t accepting of me n my son as a package (which has really taken me a back).