What is sooo offensive about chair covers? Need a rant - sorry
I’ve seen a couple of threads recently where EVERYONE has said how ‘ugly’ chair covers are. As someone who had already paid for chair cover hire, for the first time I started to second guess my decision. I do think it’s unfair for other brides (even unintentionally) to make other brides feel like this. There’s a polite way of giving your opinion without putting down other people‘s plans. If I don’t like something I wouldn’t start saying that it’s UGLY and I HATE it etc. because I want to be respectful of other people’s plans. I might just say ‘I personally wouldn’t use/have it, but it’s your day and your decion’. Be respectful ladies! Didn‘t your mothers every tell you that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all?
At the end of the day, do guests really look at chairs? As a guest I’ve never even noticed seating, I think the only time I would notice it is if there was a disctinct lack of it. Surely people will be too busy looking at all of the flowers and decorations instead of chairs, and as soon as their day down, they can’t even be seen. And as a bride, it’s not like I’m going to be walking down the isle thinking ‘I really dont like the seats my guests are covering as they sit’ I’ll be concentrating on their reactions and my husband standing at the other end of the alter.
Am I on my own in the fact that I’ll be having chair covers?