Stressing about seating arrangements! Top table vs Sweetheart table
This is my first post so please bear with me....
I am thinking of breaking the subject of a sweetheart table to Mr Banjo for a number of reasons and wanted to know your thoughts on it. The original idea was a top table and then several other tables, each hosted by members of the bridal party. Now I'm really worried this wont work. I know it seems trivial but its causing me sleepless nights!!
Firstly there is the fact if we have a top table, the number will be odd. I don't have my father present, so my dear old mum will be sitting beside me alone, so to speak, as Mr Banjo has both of his parents. I also don't have a maid of honour anymore after sacking her for being so awkward and generally making my hen do and wedding planning such a misery. I asked one of my other bridesmaids to sit in her place but she said no as she would like to be with her boyfriend on a separate table.
I'm at my wits end with people right now! Please help!