Advice needed from people in similar situations
My other half and I have 2 children together and he has 2 from his first marriage. We have them every Saturday and they stay every Saturday night-which is not the problem. The problem is Football. I gave up my job in September last year to look after the children so I now work on Saturdays to get some extra cash-I dont do this by choice! Every Sunday throughout the Football season my other half takes his 2 boys to Football matches which they play in, my other half is the Manager. This only started when they were old enough to play about 4 years now. Im not particuarly impressed with this but live with it because he enjoys it. Even annoys me more as his Ex wife decides to turn up and watch-Which I think is a bit weird and dont like. this basically leaves me at home most Sundays with our 2 children who are younger. My other half works long hours so I hardly get to see him bearing in mind I have to work on Saturdays and he is out most Sundays. I breathed a sigh of relief when I knew the football season was coming to an end. But then the bomb shell. He has decided to enter Tournaments one a month until the beginning of August. He will still continue to do training every Wednesday with his other boys. He is out tonight at the Football presentation eveing out Sunday at a tournament, out next Wednesday at training again and out with work on Thursday night. he also failed to tell me that the boys would be staying Friday night as well as Saturday night as the Presentation evening will go on unitl late so he wont be able to take them home. (I have to be up at 430am) Im feeling a bit p****d off with him as I feel like a skivvy and just a glorified house keeper. I cant even get him to see my point and just find myself getting even more annoyed. Any advice???????