It's all adding up and i'm having wobbles about the cost!
Hi, I'm having a few wobbles about how much we're spending....
What we budgeted for and what the wedding is actually costing is a whole lot different. At every turn wour choices have seemed to be the expensive one and just said we'd rather have what we want, instead of just going for the less disired (by ourselves) cheaper option and that's been fine.
It's not like we are getting ourselves into debt because we are saving really well (even took in lodgers in the spare room!) it's just i'm looking at the totals of everything and it's actually ridiculous, i could have a new car or put a deposit on another house!!
Everything about our day is going to fabulous, but it's about the marriage, do we really need to be spending this much?
Our family and friends list is huge, we're all very close so the main cost is the catering. But then again if we cut down and don't do what we want will we regret it in the long run and say 'i wish we would have done this or that'!
Did anyone else have these wobbles?