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There's probably been loads of post about this in the past.......can you please tell me what poems/readings you used for your civil ceremony?????

I'm having a nightmare choosing good ones.

Thanks girls, image

Laura x


  • MGORDONukMGORDONuk Posts: 49
    Here are a few for you


    The key to love is understanding ...

    The ability to comprehend not only the spoken word,

    but those unspoken gestures,

    the little things that say so much by themselves.

    The key to love is forgiveness ....

    to accept each others faults and pardon mistakes,

    without forgetting, but with remembering

    what you learn from them.

    The key to love is sharing ...

    Facing your good fortunes as well as the bad, together;

    both conquering problems, forever searching for ways

    to intensify your happiness.

    The key to love is giving ...

    without thought of return,

    but with the hope of just a simple smile,

    and by giving in but never giving up.

    The key to love is respect ...

    realizing that you are two separate people,

    with different ideas;

    that you don't belong to each other,

    that you belong with each other, and share a mutual bond.

    The key to love is inside us all ...

    It takes time and patience to unlock all the ingredients

    that will take you to its threshold;

    it is the continual learning process

    that demands a lot of work ...

    but the rewards are more than worth the effort ...

    and that is the key to love.???????


    From "Union," by Robert Fulghum:

    You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry.

    From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks -- all those sentences that began with ???????When we're married??????? and continued with ???????I will and you will and we will??????? -- those late night talks that included ???????someday??????? and ???????somehow??????? and ???????maybe??????? -- and all those promises that are unspoken matters of the heart. All these common things, and more, are the real process of a wedding.

    The symbolic vows that you are about to make are a way of saying to one another, ???????You know all those things we've promised and hoped and dreamed -- well, I meant it all, every word???????

    Look at one another and remember this moment in time.

    Before this moment you have been many things to one another -- acquaintance, friend, companion, lover, dancing partner, and even teacher, for you have learned much from one another in these last few years. Now you shall say a few words that take you across a threshold of life, and things will never quite be the same between you. For after these vows, you shall say to the world,

    This is my husband. This is my wife.


    "Marriage Joins Two People In The Circle Of Its Love" (Edmund O'Neill)

    Marriage is a commitment to life, the best that two people can find and bring out in each other. It offers opportunities for sharing and growth that no other relationship can equal. It is a physical and an emotional joining that is promised for a lifetime.

    Within the circle of its love, marriage encompasses all of life's most important relationships. A wife and a husband are each other's best friend, confidant, lover, teacher, listener, and critic. And there may come times when one partner is heartbroken or ailing, and the love of the other may resemble the tender caring of a parent for a child.

    Marriage deepens and enriches every facet of life. Happiness is fuller, memories are fresher, commitment is stronger, even anger is felt more strongly, and passes away more quickly.

    Marriage understands and forgives the mistakes life is unable to avoid. It encourages and nurtures new experiences and new ways of expressing a love that is deeper than life.

    When two people pledge their love and care for each other in marriage, they create a spirit unique unto themselves which binds them closer than any spoken or written words. Marriage is a promise, a potential made in the hearts of two people who love each other and takes a lifetime to fulfil.


    The starting block of any good marriage

    Is a love that will strengthen and bloom

    And lead two people from just being friends

    On the road to become Bride and Groom

    Love guides them along through good times and bad

    Punctuated with laughter and kisses

    To the point in the vows ???????til death us do part???????

    When they turn into Mr. and Mrs.

    Then it helps them continue their journey together

    Along the great highway of life

    Secure in their caring and trust for each other

    Content to be Husband and Wife

    It is love that begins it and helps it to work

    A love that will last through the years

    And that's what we find in these people before us

    For Michelle and Shaun, three cheers!


    What is Love

    Author Unknown

    Sooner or later we begin to understand that love is more than verses on valentines and romance in the movies. We begin to know that love is here and now, real and true, the most important thing in our lives. For love is the creator of our favourite memories and the foundation of our fondest dreams. Love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in even the most unlikely of places. And this radiance that never fades, this mysterious and magical joy, is the greatest treasure of all - one known only by those who love.

    Hope they help!

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