who should come?
Hi, new to the site and in a dilemma! had origionally started to plan a wedding at home, having a civil ceremony and reception at a hotel in my home town and have just recently thought about going to New York for our marriage as both me and h2b are sex and the city fans and fancied a service in central park like Miranda's (for any watchers out there)the problem is that we'd like to go with a few close friends and my brother in law and sister in law, but not invite the parents. ( oh my god, sounds so bad writing it down)
james and I have been together for 7 years at the end of this year and have a 2 year old son, and although we love him dearly and at the risk of sounding selfish,
we know that a wedding in NY would not be the same if we had the stresses of settling him into a routine for only 5 days, running around after him and dealing with a terrible 2 year olds tantrums, (which are plentyful at the minute)
so the idea is that he can stay with both sets of grandparents while we go and get hitched and then to have a nice reception in our garden when we get back. then we can take a family holiday with our son to relieve any guilt that we may have!
I really don't want to upset anyone and don't know how well my folks will take the news.
Any advice you can give or if you've been in a similar situation let me know.
Stressed out and scared!