Wedding planning blues
I'm new to the forum. I got engaged back in April and am yet to book anything! I'm starting to get a little stressed as originally we were looking at next May but have decided we'd like to marry later this year if possible so we can start a family. My H2B is rather keen on just running off abroad to Vegas or New York (where we got engaged) and just doing it ourselves with a party back at home. I'm unsure though as I am worried that I may regret it if i miss out on having things like certain family members, bridesmaids etc and so am looking into Italy (Rome or Tuscany) as an option in the hope that we can at least have some people attend. I am really worried that barely anyone will be able to make it though and just don't know what to do for the best.
Has anyone else been married/getting married abroad and had these doubts about whether to go ahead with it or not? Or am I just on my own I this and just need to decide and get on with it?!!