We've got a number of friends who wanted to come to our wedding, but for various reasons can't, they are mainly my fiances friends and i would love his best man to read out "telegrams" (emails) from them during his speech. The best man is a childhood friend so he doesn't know the friends who can't come. I don't think my fiance would even think about this detail, but would really appreciate it on the day.
So my question is, should I give the best man the email details and hope he sorts it out?
Or email everyone individually copying in the best man and then the ball is in the individuals courts, if they want to give us a message they can?
Or should i just leave it?