anyone booked a destination wedding and regretted it ?
we knew not everyone would be able to make it but the invites have been out a month and constantly having people conplain about the cost and worried we wont have anyone there.
We knew it would be small(what I wanted) And the rsvps don’t have to be in till next July ( marrying Oct 19) but it just seems so slow & everyone is very negative rather than excited.( which is clearly dragging my own excitement down)
the invitations were worded very well, in that we understood the costs and time so, we understood if guests couldn’t make it and would hold a party on our return.
im just so fed up I wish I could cancel the invites bugger off in secret and get married then just announce it to everyone.
is this normal for destination weddings ? We are marrying in the Dominican Republic so we don’t really plan much 3 months before the wedding I just feel really lost and low about it all. Maybe we made a mistake inviting people rather than eloping.
even my bridesmaids don’t seem that interested. I ended up going wedding dress shopping alone just so I had something to look forward too.
Reassurance anyone or advice please xx