i lost my baby
ive not posted in this forum before but i put up a thread in the general chat when i found out i was pregnant. when i was 9 weeks i got taken into hosp. for an emergency scan cos i was bleeding and having cramps. there they discovered i have a few clots very near to the placenta which could be causing the bleeding and was told to expect more so i was sent on my way. i carried on as normal but yesterday i had my 12 week scan and there was no heartbeat. they cant give me much of an explanation at this stage but im to go back on tuesday for a D&C? I think thats what they said, well i havent been feeling anything, i havent even cried and ive been posting in the other chats as normal. am i a horrible person for not grieving for my unborn child. i dont know what to make of it all!