Afraid of child birth to the point of not having children!!!
unfortunatly its something you just have to accept when you get pregnant......that the baby has to come out either one of 2 ways. i'm expecting my second in under 4 weeks and yes im pooping myself! but i'm more pooping myself incase i have to have a c-section! when i had my first i went into hospital at 3pm and was 6cm dilated an hour and a half later i'd had my baby and had no stitches so was back on my feet in minutes! im hoping for a similar birth this time.....yes the pain was bad but once it was over it was over. and if i was to have had a c-section i would have landed up feeling sorry for myself for a lot longer time! but if you cant take much pain then what about opting for an epidural? they work wonders apparently. and an epidural type thing is what you'd have for a c-section anyway! dont let it put you off having babies, infact giving birth (however you do it) is the most magical experience, and when you do get pregnant your midwife will discuss all your options with you! x