alcohol and trying to conceive
hi i just wondered what everyone is doing regarding this. im not a massive drinker but i do like a few drinks on the weekend maybe 2/3 glasses of wine, i have been researching on the internet and it seems as though even a small amount of alcohol can have a detrimental effect of fertility. i just feel that is can takes months/years sometimes for people to conceive . its not that i cant enjoy myself without a drink its just that family/friends will defo start asking questions if i stop totally and me and hubby wanted to keep the whole baby thing private at the moment so as not to put to much pressure on ourselves. for example i have a girly nite in planned soon which will involve a few bottles of wine and munchies, where does this leave me. i know i may sound selfish etc as its a small price to pay to a beautiful baby, its just that i dont want to change my habits totally as its like a constant reminder that were trying and i get stressed about it not happening. i hope i have explained myself properly, whats everyone else think?