To Try or not to try
I know only my husband and I can make this decision but I would love some of your views. We are ready to TTC as we are stable, we both have permanent jobs that pay ok and we have just bought our own home. We feel very settled and emotionally ready for the next step but we both have a nagging doubt about our finances after our child is born. I am born worrier and I know I am over thinking things but I worry about childcare costs. Our life is comfortable now but due to my own childhood experience I don't want to struggle for money. We have thought ahead about how we would cope whilst I am on maternity leave but I can't get my head around other long term expenses. The only thing stopping us is my worry about how we cope year after year financially and I know I am being ridiculous but I need to have a plan or be assured it's not as as bad as I think it will be! Sorry for rambling.
My question is, is this something you have considered before taking the plunge?