Going off the pill post wedding
We got married 3 weeks ago, it wad the most amazing perfect day and I couldn't feel happier.
There is a subject which I would like to raise with my husband but I'm a bit nervous to. I would really like to go off the pill as I hate being on it. It makes me feel as if I'm not in control of my body and my mood is really all over the place.
We have discussed and agreed that we would like children in the next couple of years however are not massively keen to get pregnant now. My husband and I both work long hours and only really manage to get down to it twice a month max and he always pulls out even though I'm on the pill. (sorry TMI!!)
Therefore I was considering trying out a natural cycle monitor as our contraception.
I'm a bit worried my husband is going to freak out and think I just want a baby. Saying that we are in a fine situation to have a baby in terms of finances etc. it's more that we just like our freedom at the moment and would like it just a bit longer.
Any suggestions on how I can bring up the subject without him freaking out and me caving to just carry on on the pill?