I'm getting married in the summer and have three bridesmaids. My twin sisters and one friend from university (Sally)
The problem is that in October I was a bridesmaid for a different uni friend (Abi). There are three of us that have always been friends. We were both bridesmaids for her a few months ago but I've only asked the unmarried one(Sally) to be mine..
The truth is that I just don't want her to be a bridesmaid. We don't actually see each other that much - I see Sally much more because she lives ten minutes away. We are much closer! I could have just said family only which would have avoided this whole situation but I really wanted Sally to be involved.
Everyone says honesty is the best policy but it just seems too cruel. I don't want her to do a reading either but have no idea what job she could do. My fiance really can't stand her so it can't be something too major!
Help please! We are due to meet up in two weeks. Abi knows about the wedding but knows very little else. She might be 'expecting' to be asked - she'd certainly not be expecting for me to have my sisters and our other friend and not her.