Thank you for reading my post (this is my first)! I getting married in September 2018 and my dilemma is one of my bridesmaids has just found out she is pregnant (amazing news!!) and looking at the dates she is due about 5 weeks before the wedding. As this is her first baby I know this is going to be a special time for her but also hard work and sleepless nights. I just wanted to know if anyone had any similar experiences from this from a bride or being a bridesmaid with a very young baby? I want to ask if she is ok to be bridesmaid but that would at least mean being there in the morning of the wedding but I would prefer it to be baby free (don't hate me!), I just wouldn't find that relaxing. The babies dad is invited so would it be bad of me to request this? I don't want to offend her but don't want her to think she has to be a bridesmaid when she now has such a big responsibility with a new baby which obviously comes first.
Anyway I'm babbling on, any advice on this would be much appreciated