Didn't get the job Very gutted because it would have been so so much better but what can you do. Apparently it was very close but that doesn't exactly make me feel much better about it. Off to my sisters tonight to try on the 3 dresses and hopefully one is a winner, but at least if they aren't then we have more of an idea of how to move forward.I have to drop my engagement ring off tomorrow so they can measure up my wedding band with it as they make it which is exciting! And M's band has been posted off so should be with us in the next few days. Things definitely feel like they're getting there. The visit to the venue with my Aunt was really lovely and she absolutely loves it, which is some nice validation! Her wedding to my uncle wasn't what they had really wanted, it was very parent lead so she is such an advocate of always asking me "is this what you both want" around any idea or decision made. Its a small gesture but goes such a long way. She really helped with backing up my ideas that we just don't need that much decor, so i think all in all we've settled on the ideas we had generally so i'm going to make a master list to help keep it all on track. The invites are slowly ticking along, i just need to sit and fold, glue and then just cut all the inserts to size and they're good to go!